This was a response to another blog. Please visit it here:
NO COURTSHIP, NOW WHAT? « Manspeak
I think you hit it.
I wish to place an emphasis on the “Say hello to the Lord” portion even more.
The goal of these little posts is obviously to encourage the saints to take their eyes off of the dating world and rest them upon the God.
First off, the suffering in the gospel: God most glorified through the suffering of his Son, and thus of the saints. We are not even guaranteed life tomorrow, and tomorrow our life could turn into one of suffering, so we should pray that the Spirit enable us to count our days and understand the brevity of life. And if we understand this, what is better than to simply rest in God and seek to love him?
I have been reading John Owen’s Communion with God, and it has been seriously refreshing. The first portion of the book focuses on how we commune with God the Father, in which he proves that it is through love. This love is God’s eternal and unwavering love that he gives us free of charge. So we commune with God the Father by receiving his love in faith thus resulting in us loving him.
He then transitioned to communion with Jesus Christ as our Mediator. He suggests we fellowship with Christ through the eternal joining by the Spirit dwelling within us.
A few nights ago I had also read Song of Solomon (I know, warning, warning, danger, danger this one could stir up some crazy desires). But when you look at this book through a different lens, as love and passion between Christ and his Church, we begin to touch on the subject that is so encouraging!
Between the reading of Song and Owen’s book all I can say is…Oh, how amazing it is to understand Christ as the Rose of Sharon or as the most beautiful lily of the valley (Song and Hosea). As single men (and women), we should pray that the Spirit make Christ the passion of our desires. We should rest in God by wrapping ourselves in his love. Let us drown in his love!
With this brief summary, I submit that when we turn from dating, one should take a moment and meditate on the Father’s steadfast love and Christ’s sacrifice. [If you don’t know what this is, read Isaiah 53, read the book of John.] Take a few minutes and just revel and immerse yourself in his love, commune with God.
I like your question Walt. If we are saying good bye to dating, what should we say hello to? Basically, we are saying good-bye to an idol, and joining our selves with Christ by his Grace. I believe that when we focus on his love, and understand it, and we place our selves in Christ’s Church, the other things you mentioned will follow. We become the lily like Christ. We begin to have a special fellowship with other believers that the world thinks is crazy, but we know it as sweet because the cross has been revealed to us. And we begin to desire to serve. It is all a result of God’s love, because he chose us before the foundation of the world (Eph. 1:4).
When we rest completely in God’s grace and love, we have nothing to fear but God. And then the things of this world hold very little weight. Christ is all sustaining and all sufficient.
Walt, I love this series that you did. I also agree that this life style is a hard one that requires practice and patience. I would add that on the outside we (the saints as Christians) might actually look exactly like the hypocrite or the moral person that is not saved. In fact it is probably impossible to look much different from others, after all, we are still sinners trapped in this sinful body, ever since the 3rd chapter of Genesis. But, what counts us different is the fellowship we have with Christ on the inside, during the private times of prayer and reading scripture. These are the sweet things we should count as gifts received from God and take a hold of.
Recent Comments